I don't know what to do about it, but I DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO DO IT.
I'd rather that an infinite number of people call me ugly and not criminally invade my privacy, than to have one person criminally invade my privacy and call me beautiful or intelligent or anything else that's a nicer adjective than ugly.
To be the chronic target of boundary violations is terrible; it means never being respected by anyone. It's dehumanizing; I have less privacy than someone who is in jail.
I'm not treating anyone the way that I'm being treated; I never have and never would treat anyone that way.
Copyright L. Kochman, June 25, 2016 @ 5:00 p.m.