To date someone because spending time with her will cause there to be gossip articles about you for which her name will indicate how you feel about someone else and how you want people to treat someone else is an abusive thing to do. It's abusive whether you are trying to say that you love someone else or whether you're trying to say that you hate someone else.
Copyright L. Kochman, June 7, 2016 @ 2:57 p.m.
