The advisor who betrayed me at Bunker Hill Community College is very respected, and she was nice to me most of the time until she decided to help the school ruin my academic career.
She is also a psychologist, so her inaccurate version of how I talked to her obviously has had a lot of impact.
What has coalesced around me when I'm being abused by a lot of people is a mob mentality; people not thinking or acting like the people who those who know them and like them know and like them to be.
Also; the conglomerate surrounds me with fear. It is a conglomerate tactic to make everyone around me feel afraid to be anything other than abusive toward me. To remove me from the school, even unfairly and at a high financial, social, academic and professional cost to me, removes that fear.
Bullies enjoy bullying people into being bullies; it makes them feel powerful and as if they're not wrong. To bully, intimidate or manipulate people into saying what they're saying so that "Everyone says" the same things about the person or people being bullied makes all of the bullies feel not only as if they are not bullies but as if they are victims or protectors of victims.
That is how people are bullied to death without the bullies feeling bad about it.
Copyright L. Kochman, July 16, 2017 @ 8:58 p.m.